I wanted to buy something second-hand. Unfortunately, Facebook Marketplace is the shit where I live. So I thought I could quickly register, contact the seller, and delete my account afterwards.

However, I refuse to participate in this insanity. Video selfie my ass, Facebook.

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    I left Facebook in 2009 or 2010 or so, but I attempted to register a facebook account for my business over the weekend. I can confirm, it wanted a selfie of my business. Wasn’t sure what to do with that, so I still don’t have a facebook account for my business.

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      Leaving in 2010 was a great choice. I feel like I stayed on way too long only getting rid of it in 2020.

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    Is there a good 2nd hand market beside FB now? We are buying our first house and will be needing some stuff once we move in. My account is long gone and my wife’s is deactivated, close to closing it out. We have some good antique and thrifts around us, but my SIL gets killer deals on FB market.

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        Doesn’t seem to be in my country yet, but apparently it’s in a few other EU countries so there’s hope yet!

        In the meantime I log into Facebook when I need to buy used car parts. There’s other sites but it’s nowhere near as usable as just writing “hey someone wanna sell me a 3.0 tdi (BMK/ASB) turbo pls” into the Audi group on Facebook. Such is the life of driving shitboxes anyway.

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    I needed to make an account recently, if you make it via a proper computer you get this and it sends it as an “appeal”… Which means they werent clever enough to separate new account creation from actual appeals. So of course what happens is it goes to some call center in some poor part of the world where they’re not smart enough to know the difference or dont care, they hit deny and you get perma banned.

    This is not the same if you sign up via an app, which is amazingly stupid but whatever.

    Ironically i learned about this by watching youtube videos for scammers on how to make fake facebook accounts.

    Of course i immediately uninstalled the app, because i dont want that cancer on my phone.

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    Nextdoor is the place I buy / sell secondhand goods. I signed up years ago, but the way they verified you then was you gave an address and they mailed you a post card. It is still a hassle, but imo it keeps the bots out which is nice. A lot less scammers on there.

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    This is not really the invasion of privacy it seems when you compare it to everything else facebook will do with your information.

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      That doesn’t make this any better, just makes YOU feel better about it

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        I think it’s a good way to remind you right up front when you sign up that this is what you’re signing up for. Honestly if last week I had been asked to choose between a world in which facebook makes its invasiveness painfully clear at signup vs keeps it low-key, I would choose the former.

        I feel bad about everything.

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    To confirm your identity…

    Yeah, bullshit. This is to help train their facial recognition AI.

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          They care quite a bit.

          Bots and spammers make for miserable revenue generators. If you don’t distinguish your marks from your players, there’s no way to make money at the poker table.

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        Can’t really be a bit of both because they can’t confirm shit if they don’t know what you look like in the first place. It could be to confirm that you are human (and maybe that you don’t already have an account) but they can’t confirm your “identity”.

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          Sadly they totally can. There are plenty of face databases already that they could use if they wanted[1], but if you have friends on Facebook (or Instagram) you might be in their pictures and Facebook run it’s facial recognition on every picture. Whether they can connect that to an identity or not isn’t something I know, but it’s not out of the realm of possibility.

          Tangentially related, I remember over ten years ago getting notified that I could tag myself in friends uploaded pictures that I was in, which was also when I started to get really creeped out by Facebook.


          1. I remember this podcast about some https://www.searchengine.show/should-this-creepy-search-engine-exist/ but there is a decent amount of reporting about them ↩︎

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      and if they find or know a way to sell that with the other data colleted from you, they will proudly do it

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    For years people have given me the blinking stare of unbelief when I tell them I’ve never had a Facebook. Now being absent on that platform and others is seen as suspicious. I got a buddy who couldn’t complete a job application because Facebook was a mandatory field in the electronic form. The border Gestapo and the State Department require your socials for visa applications. A friend told me that she wouldn’t date a guy without socials because she browses them as a kind of background check.

    Fuck Meta.

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      Most of those are indeed bullshit since authorities have better platforms and businesses don’t need to know your private info.

      But women doing background checks to see what kind of men they are dating on the only platforms they have access to is just security. You can even leave your accounts info fully locked except for friends.

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        No, it’s quite healthy to each having their private account they don’t share with their partner. Guess what the reverse is.

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          Huh

          Edit: apparently I’ve angered people by not knowing what this means. It sounds like multiple levels of sarcasm but whatever

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            I don’t follow either. It sounds like they’re talking about couples making joint Facebook accounts, which is a complete non-sequitur from all the comments before it.

            But I might be wrong, as it seems a lot of people understand something that we’re missing. Would anyone that understands this better mind giving some clarification?

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      That’s a generational thing. 99% of my friends and people of my age I know have never had Facebook. Instagram, however…

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      Same, I always assume the worst with big companies and/or data.
      They were always scummy.
      Never gave my name or info, never been on social platforms unless there was a good reason to be on them.

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      For years people have given me the blinking stare of unbelief when I tell them I’ve never had a Facebook.

      The same people who two decades ago would have look at you sideways for using internet to talk with strangers. These idiots always conform to what is popular.

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    I got this on one of my joke accounts years ago.

    I googled “3d face generator”, clicked on the first website, and slapped in an image of trump. Then I just rotated the 3d model following whatever the instructions were, and it worked lol

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      which means a bot could also easily pass the test, even though they claim it’s for checking you are not a bot

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        Discord asks your phone number for logging in from different locations when you already have TOTP 2FA and they still try to gaslight knowing your phone number is for your “security”

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    I would sooner put my nuts in an iron vice while running 10.000 volts through it and lighting it on fire than provide Facebook with anything at all.

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        Nope. Managed to stay off of it for my entire life so far. Reason for it was that back in '05 or a bit later one of the very first things I learned about the nascent Facebook, was Zuck’s famous “Dumb fucks” remark about his early users. I rightfully concluded that someone with such a mindset would be an absolutely plague on mankind and I would never willingly help them in any way, no matter how insignificant.

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              Same for me. I never understood what motivated that content and, by extension, why I should care about consuming it.

              Ooo you had a cheeseburger tonight! IDGAF.

              Some witty political insights! Fuck off.

              Your child was born! Wonderful, send an email or an announcement card in the mail.

              Large scale emergency! I’m going to a reputable news source; I don’t need user-curated echo chambers.

              Old friends and acquaintances catching up? I’ve had the same cell phone number for 25 years. If they wanted to reach out, they can refer to the phone number I wrote in the yearbook.

              It’s just dumb.

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              Fair enough, I honestly applaud you for that, because you’ve managed to avoid the data sucking machine of meta and its services

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        I had one many years ago because my wife talked me i to it and ‘deleted’ it due to not using it after a couple years because it was showing me other things than just my contacts even back then. It was mostly a way to see my hogh school acquaintences and childhood friends who moved far away were still alive.

        The superficial connections were fine, but not engaging like nearby friends. I have one friend who does post there and sometimes forgets to put it elsewhere, but my wife lets me know when he does.

        Note: I put ‘deleted’ because there is zero chance they deleted anything other than the ability to log in.

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    “We, a company that has allowed AI generated propaganda to run rampant and destabilize global politics, need to make sure you are a real person so you must provide us with a video proving you are real that we totally wont use for AI and facial recognition purposes.”